Making the Most of Your Summer

Summer can be a challenging time for Life Lessons groups, as vacations and the pleasantness of eating lunch outdoors take a toll on group participation. But with a little forethought, you can actually turn this seasonal lull to your advantage and potentially increase your group’s influence down the road. Here are:

Four Ways to Leverage Summer to Your Group’s Benefit


CHANGE TARGETS
Shifting your focus for the summer—for the sake of reaching a group of people you’ve been missing—can give you a wider base from which to draw once you’re back in season. You can tailor your DVD selection and market toward a specific stage of life, such as parents or singles. Or you could target management and management-hopefuls by temporarily switching gears from sermon-based content to leadership-based titles, like those in North Point Resources’ Leader Essentials series.
Suggestions: Parental Guidance Required; The New Rules of Love, Sex & Dating; L.E.: Trust vs. Suspicion; L.E.: Becoming a Great Staff
A great time to try it: When you’re having a difficult time reaching certain groups within your target audience.
Not a great time to try it: When the “this-group-is-for-everybody” promised is a key part of your arrangement with H.R.

TAKE A STRATEGIC BREAK
Sometimes we’re hesitant to take breaks because we’re afraid we’ll lose momentum. But cratering attendance loses momentum anyway, and you can actually build momentum by purposefully taking a break and giving your audience a chance to miss you. It also gives you a chance to build your lunch funds back up and re-charge your leadership batteries.
Suggestions: (1) Tell people in advance that you’re taking a break. This allows you to cast vision for why the break is a good thing, and plant the seeds for a momentum boost when your group returns. (2) Let people know that—and when—your group will be coming back. (3) Pick a series with a good “hook” for the return in the fall. Avoid titles that sound like downers.
A great time to try it: When the past couple summers’ experience tells you you’re headed for a trough in your participation.
Not a great time to try it: When your group is new (started in 2013) or has recently come off an extended break.

CAST VISION TO THE “INSIDERS”
When attendance flags, it’s often the core group of Christians who keep the group afloat. They’re also the ones who sometimes push back against the idea of taking a break. Have your cake and eat it too by taking the summer off from your normal Life Lessons group, but use that time to focus on the “insiders.” Specifically, use a Christian-oriented message series to remind people why you’re doing Life Lessons in the first place—to reach out to the unchurched/non-Christians in your sphere of influence—and inspire them to look outward.
Suggestions: Go Fish, On Location, Big Church, Christian: It’s Not What You Think (these last two may require meeting weekly to finish them before summer ends).
A great time to try it: When there haven’t been any new faces in a while, or when your group members have lost sight of the importance of reaching out.
Not a great time to try it: When your group is actively drawing new people (especially the unchurched/non-Christians) on a regular basis.

GREATEST HITS MARATHON
Some leadership teams don’t want to take the summer off, but also don’t want to “waste” a new series on a time when a lot of people won’t be there to see it. Their solution: summer re-runs! This allows people who missed a series to catch up, and can re-kindle interest by bringing back some titles that drew big interest in the past. You can also cherry-pick the best individual messages from different series to create a strong slate, while giving newcomers a chance to see what they missed.
Suggestions: Stick with titles you haven’t shown in at least a year.
A great time to try it: When your group has been around a while, but has experienced an influx of new people over the past several months.
Not a great time to try it: When your group is new and has little history from which to draw.

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New Series: “Breathing Room”

We are pleased to announce the newest addition to the Life Lessons message series catalog: Breathing Room.




Deadlines . . . Traffic . . . Flights to catch . . . Bills to pay . . .

Emails . . . Carpool . . . Tennis . . . Dinner . . . Homework . . . Ever feel like you can’t catch your breath?
Perhaps you need some . . . [inhale] . . . breathing room . . . [exhale]. We all do.

In our attempt to get the most out of life, it’s easy to lose control of our lives. For most of us, breathing room feels more like a luxury than a necessity. In this four-part message series, Andy Stanley shows us how to create breathing room in our schedules, our finances, and our relationships. After all, life is better with breathing room.


Wait, this sounds familiar.

You’re absolutely right.
We now have three series that deal with the issue of “margin.” Most of you are familiar with Guardrails, a six-part series from 2010. Before that, there was Take It To The Limit, a six-part series from 2002.

So, how are these different from one another?

Breathing Room is shorter (four parts instead of six), because it has a narrower focus. It looks at margin in the areas of our finances, schedules, and work/life balance, but does not include messages devoted to margin in our morality or friendships (which Guardrails and Take It to the Limit include). Also, Breathing Room approaches the subject of margin from a quality-of-life angle, while Guardrails approaches it from the perspective of protecting yourself. All three series are fantastic and a great fit for Life Lessons groups, but there’s pretty heavy overlap in the content. If you have shown one of these margin-based series, we recommend waiting 18-24 months before showing another.

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Planning for Easter

Today is Ash Wednesday, so with Lent underway, it’s time to start thinking about Easter.


In church world, we think of Easter as our “Super Bowl” — it’s the time of year that even non-church people attend church. Likewise, the Easter season may be a time of year when your Life Lessons group can attract some new participants who show little interest at other times. You can leverage this additional interest by showing an Easter-themed message or series in your Life Lessons group.

This option is not for everyone. In particular, if your group has made promises to HR or management not to proselytize or “push Jesus” on your participants, you should at least watch these messages in advance to make sure you’re not violating those commitments, as Easter messages are naturally among the most Jesus-centric messages we have available. That being said, if you think your group could leverage an Easter message or series, here are a few options:

Multi-part Series:
With Easter approaching on March 31st, you might need to start these series as early as next week to get the whole thing in before Easter.

  • Three Shadows of the Passion (2004, 3 parts) – In this series, Andy looks at three characters from the Easter story and contrasts the self-centeredness of their motives with the selfless sacrifice of Jesus.

  • Playing God (2007, 4 parts) – This series, which looks at power and how we use it, is not an Easter series, per se. However, Part 4 of this series (“The Script”) was the Easter message at North Point in 2007. The message was a bit shorter than most (29:50) because it was accompanied by a couple of special openers as well as 2 closing songs. The DVD version of part 4 does not include these additional elements, just the “Playing God” title package and the message. If you want to see how this played on Easter, you can stream video of it here. If you plan this series for Easter, then if your audience is open to it, your environment/equipment allows it, and you wouldn’t be compromising promises you made to HR/management, you might consider playing part 4′s intro via the web, then switching to DVD for the message.

Individual Easter Messages:
Each of these are DVD-Rs that are not available from North Point Resources, but can be requested by emailing us directly. Please order at least 2 weeks in advance, because we have a limited supply of these discs.

  • The Final Hours (2009) — Today, crosses are an important part of cultures around the world. We see them on the tops of buildings, we wear them as jewelry, and we celebrate them in art and fashion. So, how did the cross go from an unmistakable symbol of suffering and shame in the ancient world to a definitive symbol of hope and salvation in ours? In this message, Andy Stanley explores that question by examining Jesus’ choice to die on a cross.
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  • The Resurrection: It’s Essential (2012) — Do unto others. Love is patient, love is kind. Turn the other cheek. It’s easy to appreciate Jesus’ teachings. But then the Bible writers tell us that he rose from the dead. And a man rising from the dead is harder to believe; for some, it’s so hard to believe that they cherry-pick the teachings and refute the resurrection. In this message, Andy Stanley recounts the truth about Jesus’ life and death that Paul says is “of first importance.”
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2 New Series Available! Climate Change & Free

We are excited to announce that two new series, Climate Change and Free, are now available in our Life Lessons Over Lunch Curriculum!

Climate Change addresses the idea that we all bring certain climates to our relationships, be it warm and sunny, stormy, or even icy. Many times, we have no idea what kind of emotional climate we carry around with us. In this 4-part series, Jeff Henderson addresses how to recognize our climates and, therefore, predict our relational forecast for the future. He poses a simple, yet profound question we can ask that may radically change the way we relate to others, and help us have a more favorable forecast for the future. Originally, Climate Change was not going to be produced as a DVD, but due to its positive feedback and high demand, it is now available for your LLOL group!

Andy’s 4-part series, Free, centers around verse EVERYONE can relate to: “I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate, I do…For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out” (Romans 7:15,18). While this series may be a bit more theological in nature than what some of your LLOL groups are used to, it may also be one of the most relatable. None of us ever live up to what we “ought” to do, even when we have the most sincere of intentions and we give it our best effort. In this series, Andy unpacks some of the most complex and life-changing verses in all of Scripture, and breathes life and freedom into the areas of our lives that feel broken and chained.

We hope you will check out these new series on our Curriculum Page, and leave feedback after your group completes them. As always, let us know if there’s anything we can do to help you!

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Most-requested DVDs of 2012

Now that 2012 has wrapped up, and the results are in, it’s time to share with you the most-requested Life Lessons DVDs of the year.

Top 10 DVDs of 2012
We shipped well over 600 DVDs to Life Lessons groups in 2012. Not surprisingly, the four DVDs released between 4Q2011 and 3Q2012 were all among the top five most-requested message series for Life Lessons groups. Sitting at the top is The Comparison Trap, with 36 orders. I remember sitting in church with my wife last February, as The Comparison Trap was presented live, and we looked at each other saying, “This is going to be huge for Life Lessons groups!”

By the way, most of the newer DVDs on this list have had very few ratings or comments so far. If you’ve done one of these in your group, would you take a minute to rate it and/or offer your comments on the series page? Your feedback really helps your fellow leaders, who are considering which series to show in their groups.

Here’s the list of the Top 10 most-requested Life Lessons DVDs of 2012.

Rank Chg. Message Series 2012 Orders 2011 Rank Ratings Comments
1.
Comparison Trap
36
[new]
1
1
T-2.
When God?
26
[new]
1
1
T-2.
Life Apps
26
#5
8
3
4.
Recovery Road
24
#12*
6
3
5.
Christian: It’s Not What You Think
23
[new]
1
1
6.
Destinations/Boulevard of Broken Dreams
22
T-#6
15
15
T-7.
Game Plan
14
#3
7
3
T-7.
Guardrails
14
#5
19
16
T-9.
White Flag
13
T-#13
3
3
T-9.
Time of Your Life
13
#1
8
4

* Recovery Road was only available for the last 10 weeks of 2011, yet it still managed to rank 12th for that year. If all of the Recovery Road requests for its first 12 months of release were counted, its 38 would place it above Comparison Trap, and would be the 2nd-highest 12-month total, trailing only the 45 requests for Time of Your Life in its first 12 months. Of course, Comparison Trap still has two months to go in its first year of release, so it could still break Time of Your Life‘s record.

What about you? Which have been your favorite series? Add your comments here.

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Future Family Series Now Available!

We are excited to offer Andy Stanley’s newest sermon series, Future Family, for your Life Lessons group!


Life Lessons Over Lunch hasn’t had an offering on family in years, and we hear many of our leaders asking for this type of message to show to their LLOL groups. This series touches on marriage, children, parenting, and our families of origin. With such applicable content, Future Family has the potential to be one of the most impactful sermon series you ever offer.

No matter your background, belief system, socioeconomic or relationship status, we all have two things in common when it comes to family. One, we didn’t have any choice in the matter when it comes to our family of origin, and, two, family is difficult. In one way or another, our families impact us all.

In Future Family, Andy’s messages overflow with practical wisdom, including one question that has the potential to totally change the dynamic of our families and our lives. He addresses conflict and awkward family relationships, and he and his wife, Sandra, share everything they have learned about parenting their three children. Christians and non-Christians alike will walk away empowered to make their future family better than their past.

Click here to order Future Family for your LLOL group.

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Planning for the Fall

Late July/early August is the time when
many Life Lessons groups plan their fall message series calendars.

If your group is like most, meeting every other week or twice a month, the Labor-Day-to-Christmas corridor gives you 7 or 8 meetings for which you need messages. Sounds like the perfect time for a 6-part fall series, followed by 1 or 2 stand-alone Christmas messages to close out the year.

By tapping into some seasonal interest, you may be able to draw some new faces into your group, and give more people an opportunity to here practical Biblical principles and consider issues of faith. Here are some great options:

6-part Fall Message Series:

  • Game Plan: Andy Stanley and Jeff Henderson tag-team this 2010 series on discovering God’s plan for our lives. Its football-themed intros and analogies make it perfectly timed for the fall.
  • Recovery Road: In the run-up to the U.S. Presidential election, the state of the nation and its economy will be front-and-center in many people’s minds.
  • Five Things God Uses to Grow Your Faith: The beginning of a new school year is a natural time to focus on growth, and the “fall color palette” and tree motif in the theme work nicely this time of year.

Stand-alone Christmas Messages:


These messages are described in greater detail on our Single Message Options page. With the exception of An Invitation to Christmas, they are all DVD-R’s that do not appear on our DVD Order Form, so you’ll have to request them directly by emailing the Life Lessons staff.

  • My Make-Believe Christmas (2005): The dysfunctional people and relationships that make Christmas so difficult? They’re the reason for the season!
  • Footnote (2007): Andy explains the historical context of the first Christmas.
  • An Invitation to Christmas (2009): Introduces us to a few of these colorful characters in Jesus’ family tree and how their roles in the Christmas story give hope to us all.
  • Uncomplicating Christmas (2011): The story of Christmas—God’s most important message to mankind—shouldn’t be complicated.
  • A Random Christmas (2011): Andy challenges us to respond to the seemingly random curve balls in our lives the same way Mary did to God’s biggest curve ball ever.

What about you? What is your Life Lessons group planning to show this fall? Add your comments here.

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Why Can’t I Find the ____ Series?

Looking for a specific series and can’t find it?

We sometimes hear from our leaders looking for certain messages to use for their groups. We want to address why some series may not be available to Life Lessons groups. The following are some general reasons as to why some message series are not available.

The series was not developed as a DVD.Not all message series are developed into DVD format.  Typically multi-part series are the ones that generate enough sales to justify the cost of producing the DVD.  Some examples are The Immeasurable Life, The Shocking Statements of Jesus, and Amazing Stories. Please note that some stand-alone messages have been made available as single-message DVD-Rs.

The series is out of print. Some series were previously available on DVD but have sold out their initial run and haven’t been re-ordered.  Examples include Heroes, Dealing with Doubt, Choosing Christmas and others.

The series is available on DVD, but is not in the Life Lessons catalog.  Typically, messages series are excluded because they not a good fit for Life Lessons Over Lunch.  Some are too insider focused (Big Church) or not well suited for a workplace environment (New Rules for Love, Sex, & Dating).  We do consider making these available on a case by case basis.  Others in this category include On Location and Indescribable.

Our goal is to make sure that our leaders are well resourced and that it is an easy, streamlined process when it comes to ordering and showing your DVDs.  Our hope is that we can equip you with the most effective approach to bridging your faith at work while creating opportunities for those who are far from God to draw near.


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Ordering Made Easier

You want DVDs. We want to give them to you.
And we both want this to be as simple as possible.

So we’re constantly working on ways to make the process ordering your DVDs smoother and more effective. Now you can:

  • Fill out the online DVD Order Form, click Submit, and you’re done. No more downloading a Word doc to your computer, filling it out, saving it, and emailing it to us.
  • Save your shipping address in your Profile, and it will pre-populate the Order Form for you.
  • Request up to 4 DVDs at a time. In fact, we’d prefer that you order at least 2, to make the most of our shipping budget.
  • Add your first DVD to the Order Form directly from that series’s Series Page.

Because we know it’s how you use this website the most, we’re putting quick links to the Order Form and the Curriculum Listing on every page in the Leaders section.

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New series: The Comparison Trap

There’s a new 3-part message series available for Life Lessons groups: The Comparison Trap.

I’m excited to add The Comparison Tramp to the Life Lessons catalog because it’s such a natural fit for Life Lessons groups. We all deal with the problem of comparing ourselves to those around us, trying to figure out where we stand and if we make the cut. At least, I know I deal with it. When this series ran live at North Point, I missed part 1 with bronchitis. When I listened to the podcast of it a week later to catch up, I was on a treadmill at the gym. And at the very moment Andy talked about how we look to our right and to our left… I happened to be sneaking a glance at the treadmill to my left, comparing their speed to mine. I was caught in the trap!

If I deal with the comparison trap and you do too, chances are that we’re not alone. Those in your sphere of influence, regardless of where they stand spiritually, deal with the same issue—and your Life Lessons group may be their best opportunity to find out how to escape the comparison trap!

[Visit the series page for series description, MP3 downloads, video preview, and more.]

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